I got a nice email today from a Mr. Bennett who told me that his law firm created a page called Driving with a Disability and informed me of a very interesting fact. That young Autistic drivers are less likely to get into crashes then their non-autistic peers? I did not know that and so appreciate a awesome fact and him and his team’s hard work on their page. Its really appreciated when I see positive information about autism and adhd. Driving is a responsibility that everyone should take seriously not just divergent individuals. Use driving as a time to be Autistic and just be present and focused on being a safe driver. No PHONES! Just music. I like Pink Floyd & Cardi B.
Please visit https://www.milavetzlaw.com/driving-with-a-disability-guide/ Mr. Bennett’s email was my first and made my day!. He was super nice.
Navigating the Roads with Autism and ADHD: A Personal Journey to Autonomy and Sensory Comfort
My Early Adventures Behind the Wheel
Driving has been a significant part of my life from a young age, starting with my early lessons navigating the rugged terrains of Kenai, Alaska. My grandfather introduced me to driving when I was around ten years old, steering his manual Izuzu 4 x 4 through the expansive landscapes. The challenges of mastering the manual transmission didn’t deter me; they only deepened my love for driving. This passion was nurtured further through my high school years in South Florida, where my father continued my driving education.
The Road to Independence
Obtaining my driver’s license was a milestone filled with both setbacks and triumphs. Despite failing my first driving test due to the tricky three-point turn, I persevered and passed on my second attempt. This achievement wasn’t just about mobility; it symbolized independence and personal growth.
Driving: A Sensory Experience and Escape
For me, driving is more than getting from point A to point B; it’s a therapeutic journey. The soothing vibrations of the car, a comfort since my days as a colicky infant, serve as a calming presence. The autonomy of being at the wheel is a significant aspect of my driving experience, providing a sense of escape and control.
Today’s Drives: Balancing Autonomy and Responsibility
As a parent, I’ve continued to embrace my passion for driving, now behind the wheel of a manual shift Mustang Ecoboost. Morning drives to school with my children are a time of quiet reflection. The car’s soothing hum, combined with my noise-cancelling headphones, creates a tranquil environment, helping me to manage sensory overload, particularly during heavy traffic. Despite my challenges with visual distractions on side streets, I find a unique solace on the freeway, where the open road minimizes distractions and maximizes my comfort.
Reflections on Driving with Autism and ADHD
Driving as someone with Autism and ADHD involves unique challenges and adaptations. The sensory aspects of driving—a constant in my life from a young age—help manage my sensory needs and provide a comforting routine. The independence it grants me is not just about physical mobility but also about maintaining mental and emotional well-being.
The Discipline of Driving: Adhering to Rules and Embracing Responsibility
Instilling the Importance of Driving Rules
Driving, much like any other serious undertaking, comes with its own set of rules and responsibilities, which were instilled in me from a young age. My father played a crucial role in teaching me the importance of adhering to traffic laws. His approach was methodical and consistent, ensuring that I understood not just the ‘how’ of driving, but also the ‘why’ behind each rule. He made sure to explain the potential consequences of speeding or neglecting traffic signs, emphasizing safety above all.
Maintaining a Strong Driving Record
Thanks to the foundational driving lessons from my father, I have maintained a good driving record. This achievement isn’t just a personal win; it’s a testament to the discipline and responsibility that driving demands. For me, the structured nature of driving rules provides a clear framework within which I can operate confidently and safely.
Driving with Autism and ADHD: Challenging Misconceptions
There is a common misconception that individuals with Autism and ADHD may find driving more challenging or may be less capable behind the wheel. However, my experience suggests otherwise. Autism and ADHD do not hinder one’s ability to drive. In fact, the less social nature of driving—where focus and attention to the road are paramount—aligns well with the strengths of many autistic individuals. Not being required to engage socially while driving allows for a focus that is pure and undistracted.
The Silent Solitude of Driving
The act of driving does not necessitate verbal communication, which suits me perfectly. The quiet solitude of the driver’s seat is where I find my rhythm and comfort. This environment allows me to manage the sensory inputs and demands of driving without the additional stress of social interaction.
Conclusion: A Personal Commitment to Safe Driving
For those of us navigating life with Autism and ADHD, driving can be a powerful expression of independence and responsibility. It proves that with the right guidance, understanding, and respect for the rules, driving can be a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone, regardless of neurological makeup.